Top 10: Ways to Make a First Date Unforgettable

The first date is always a make-or-break situation. If you play your cards right, you set the stage for a whole lot of hot fun. But mess up and you’ll NEVER hear from her again. Unfortunately, most guys screw up the first date so badly that the woman changes her phone number and moves out of state. Use these 10 tips to make yourself unforgettable in a good way:

10. Set the date up right

An unforgettable first date starts with a solid setup. When you call her a day or two after getting her number, do not waste time on the phone. Get straight to business. Say something like, “Hey, I don’t have long to talk, but I wanted to touch base and say hi. I’m going to be busy today and tomorrow night, but let’s get together Saturday for a cup of coffee and some stimulating conversation…” Bang. Done. Don’t linger any longer than you have to. She’ll get the impression that you’re a busy guy with a busy life, and that she’ll have to EARN space in your calendar.

9. If she says no

If you ask her out and she says, “I’m sorry, I have plans,” just say, “Cancel them! I’m more fun than whatever you’re doing.” Even if she doesn’t cancel (she probably won’t, which is fine), she’ll get a laugh, and it’ll show that you’re confident -- which is a HUGE turn-on. Just make sure that if she does cancel, you make it EXTRA fun and exciting by following the tips below…

8. Leave her alone

When you’re out together, leave her alone once in awhile. Let’s say you’re out together at a store window shopping. Most guys will stick right alongside of the girl they’re with the entire time. BIG MISTAKE. Instead, walk away from her into a different part of the store once in awhile and let her come find you. This can make a HUGE difference in the way she sees you. At a subtle level, walking away from a woman communicates, “I’m confident and independent. I do what I want with my life, and I don’t need to stay right next to you every second to get your approval.” Women find this kind of independent man EXTREMELY attractive.

7. Stop being extra nice

When we men are around attractive women, most of us tend to act like we want and need the woman’s approval by acting extra nice, extra courteous, kissing up, and letting her lead. The paradox is that needing her approval -- and behaving like you need it -- will NEVER cause her to feel that gut-level attraction for you. NEWSFLASH: Just because this is “common social courtesy,” doesn’t mean it works. Ironically, the way to get her approval and make her want you is to NOT NEED IT in the first place… and make sure she’s aware of this fact. Do this by making her work for your attention and approval. Don’t hand it to her on a silver platter by tripping over yourself to be “extra nice.”

6. Never give a direct answer

Never give a woman a direct answer… unless the answer is NO. If she says, “Can we sit here?” I say, “No, let’s sit in this one next to it.” Or if she says, “How do you like my dress?” I say, “Well, give me a few more minutes to see it on you.” If she says, “Call me tomorrow,” I say, “No. You call me tomorrow. Come on, you want me and you know it.” Use everything she says as a way to playfully show that you’re the one in control, you’re not easy to please, and that you can already tell that she secretly digs you.

5. Don’t be afraid to turn it up

If she complains about you or doesn’t like something you are doing say, “I’m glad you like it,” and then do it more. If she doesn’t like a song on the radio, turn up the volume -- in a playful way, of course. If she says, “I don’t really like it when you say that,” say, “Well then you might want to leave because I say it a lot.” This sends a clear signal that she can’t control or manipulate you by complaining like a little girl.

4. Keep your composure

Most men can’t keep their composure when a woman tests them. But losing your composure is one of the fastest ways to lose your chances with a woman. So expect women to test you. They have to… how else can they know for sure if you’re really, really, REALLY the real deal? When she tests you, never let it take you off balance. Respond by communicating with your body language, voice tone, smiles, and words that you think it’s actually kind of CUTE. If you do have to put your foot down, always come from the place of, “I just don’t spend time around people that are unstable,” not from the place of, “This is upsetting me emotionally, and I can’t keep my cool.” Think James Bond, George Clooney in Ocean’s 11, or Clark Gable in Gone with the Wind. These guys are ALWAYS in control… and never lose their cool.

3. Make your move

Obviously, men are the ones expected to “make a move.” But it’s easy to become overtaken by fear of failure at that critical moment… to the point where you FREEZE UP and don’t do anything! This, of course, leads to not succeeding at all. A woman will let you die on the vine before SHE makes a move. Sure, she’ll be disappointed that you didn’t gather the courage to do it, but not so disappointed that she’ll do it herself. Why? Because if you can’t assert yourself, then you are NOT the kind of man she’s looking for. So when the moment comes, do the thing you fear and “make your move” -- she’ll thank you for it, believe me.

2. Make it her first time

Remember the first time you rode a bike? Your first high school dance? Your first girlfriend? The fact is we tend to remember the FIRST TIME we do things… and you can use this to your advantage when hanging out with a woman. Find out something she’s never done before, and incorporate it into your first date. Even if it’s something as simple as a far-out cocktail or an off-the-wall flavor of ice cream that you love and that she’s never tried, you’ll make a lasting impression in her mind. She’ll never forget the date and, more importantly… she’ll never forget YOU.

1. Build attraction

Most guys confuse the word “attractive” with the word “attraction.” Attractive is how a person LOOKS. Many guys think, “I’m not physically attractive, like a Brad Pitt, so I won’t be able to succeed with women,” and they psychologically give up. But ATTRACTION is an emotion… it’s the feeling you get toward another person when you have a sexual interest in them. The thing to remember here is that women can feel a very powerful ATTRACTION toward a man who’s not very attractive physically. And you can make yourself far more attractive if you take the time to understand that a woman’s “attraction mechanism” is triggered as much by your personality and style of communication as a man’s attraction mechanism is triggered by the physical beauty of a woman. So forget about your looks and, instead, LEARN how to make women feel attraction for you.

Source: AskMen.com

Affirmation

Let’s start with a question for you. At the moment, do you have a thing that really wanted deep inside?

Yeah I know it that you have things that you desire, that you want, that you long for. So what do you do to achieve or get what you want? Some work hard to get it. Even sacrifices a lot just to have it. And there are others with any effort they got it.

Would you agree with me if I say that these things that you want could be achieve with the write attitude and outlook. Well if you’re a person that practices positive affirmation on things that you want. There’s no doubt that you’ll have what you want. Even a simple “I can do it” statement every once in a while could make a change in the flow of result later on.

I have read this way back 2 months ago from the web and I have thought to try this now who knows it might work. Here is how to do it. Write in small pieces of papers things like “I can do it”, “I know it”, “I’m the best” and more stuffs like that. And place that pieces of paper all around your house and thus take time to read it. And if you’re not in the house take time to say the phrases from time to time. And as you continue this your mind is stimulated and thus action follows.

Hence the power of affirmation really is simple yet it is powerful. And hopefully I’ll get what I want at the moment. :)

Did You Know

ü Butterflies taste with their feet.

ü A duck’s quack doesn’t echo, and no one knows why.

ü In 10 minutes, a hurricane releases more energy than all of the world’s nuclear weapons combined.

ü On average, 100 people choke to death on ballpoint pens every year.

ü On average people fear spiders more than they do death.

ü Thirty-five percent of the people who use personal ads for dating are already married.

ü Elephants are the only animals that can’t jump.

ü Only one person in two billion will live to be 116 or older.

ü It’s possible to lead a cow upstairs . . . but not downstairs.

ü Women blink nearly twice as much as men.

ü It’s physically impossible for you to lick your elbow.

ü A snail can sleep for three years.

ü No word in the English language rhymes with “MONTH.”

ü Our eyes are always the same size from birth, but our nose and ears never stop from growing.

ü The electric chair was invented by a dentist.

ü All polar bears are left-handed.

ü In ancient Egypt, priests plucked every hair from their bodies, including their eyebrows and eyelashes.

ü An ostrich’s eye is bigger than its brain.

ü Typewriter is the longest word that can be made using the letters only on one row of the keyboard.

ü “Go” is the shortest complete sentence in the English language.

ü If Barbie were life-size, her measurements would be 39-23-33. She should even stand seven feet, two inches tall.

ü A crocodile cannot stick its tongue out.

ü The cigarette lighter was invented before the match.

ü You tried to lick your elbow, didn’t you?

SOURCE: WOMEN

Benefit From Failures In Life

Many people are afraid to chase their dreams…to pursue real success because pursuing real success means taking risks – and people avoids taking risks because they are afraid to fail!

Failure is too often perceived as an inability to reach desired goals. Yet, almost every person who’s been successful had the willingness to experience failures, learn from them, and use them to move forward!

Any failure has the potential to be good and worthwhile – if only we can learn from it. We have to make a commitment to discover, to reflect at the failure and to build upon it. If we don’t, then failure can’t work its magic…And we will become a failure once again! Failure can only be helpful when we decide to learn from it. And learning doesn’t happen by default or osmosis. It requires time to understand what went right and what went wrong, and then figure out how to double dose the good stuff and gradually decreasing the bad stuff.

Failure is an inevitable part of life and success. Sometimes we get it in large doses and sometimes in smaller doses. But if we understand that we alone have the power to make our own failures positive or negative, then accepting failure isn’t so hard. It becomes manageable, beautiful, challenging, and worthwhile.

Key points to remember…learning from our failures is important; acting on that knowledge from failure is even more important. Believe in the strength of the human spirit and who believes in us!

My first

Well this is my first post for my new blog. Well I would just like to thank blogger for being so kind that they would make a free account available to us.

Honestly I haven’t written for a long time since I stopped blogging on my old site.. Due to being busy at work and studies. Yeah you heard it right. I do work at the same time study. Well a lot of people do this thou. I have a friend before that told me those busy people are a great person that’s why they’re busy.

Well till here for my first post. I’ll be posting again as often as possible.